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Importance Of The Display Of Friendship

November 5, 2011 By Leave a Comment

01313069449_z220829149.jpgWhen you have close people who you love and adore, you will not have any problem with display of friendship. Display of friendship is something that all people who are in deep relationships do. It comes automatically and people around will know for sure that you and your friends are close. In these modern times, trust has been broken in many friendships relationships and it is for this reason that you need to work extra hard when it comes to maintaining your relations. You do not have to show the whole world that you are friends so that you can qualify as friends. It all starts in the heart and this is all that matters. Before you display the friendship for everyone to see, it is vital for you to have some good tips on how to create the friendships that will last. Those friendships that last are based on mutual trust and affection. The first thing is to look around and see those people who can qualify to become your friends. The main thing that people look for in friends is compatibility.

For any relationship to take of, people must have similar interests so that they can have something to talk about. This is the only way that friendships form as people learn to appreciate each other. The display of friendship will be possible only if there is compatibility. Therefore, look for friends in all the places that you like to frequent. If you play a particular sport, look around for interesting people and, there is no doubt that you will meet them. Many people never take time to look around yet they complain that there are no good friends. Friendship is a deliberate choice and if you feel that your life will be better with friends, it is time to work towards this. If you are used to the display of friendship from your peers, it is time you also got a good friend who you can show of. It is really not about showing of but, it is about celebrating the friendship or the union.

The display of friendship will call for great sincerity. This is because there must be something real. Many will just pretend to be friends for the sake of convenience. Apart from being sincere, friends need to trust each other. The umbrella virtue of friendship is love. When you truly love your friends, there will be no problem when it comes to display of this affection. Friends will compliment your life and make life spicier. Friends accompany us to fun places and they help us have the confidence we would not have had if we were alone. In many ways, friendship is worth cherishing and, celebrating. Remember, it all starts with a good heart and with a willingness to make friends who are to make life better. You must be good if you want good friends; there are no two ways about this. Friends will be there for us when we are in trouble and this is one of the reasons why friendships should be honored and cherished.

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Examing Kinds of Friendships

November 3, 2011 By Leave a Comment

11313069273_dscn0643.jpg Quickly, we often connect to people unknown. We meet others in markets, sporting events, museums, malls, or at in other public contexts. Many we briefly meet to never see again. However, some may become friends. How do we define friendships? It is important for us to know what friendship means so that we can have good relationships with others. Many of us can describe enemies well as people we do not like, people we criticize or disrespect. Are friends people we like, people we praise and respect? And yet, there are different kinds of friendships aren’t there?

There are new friends whom are people we recently meet. We are often drawn to them not known why and decide to continue to communicate and interact with them in order to get to know them better. However, we may not identify new people we meet as friends in the future.
Exploratory friendships include people we are not sure able.  We may have no decided whether we want these people as friends but we keep things open. We may test them continue to see if they merit further review or acceptance. Additionally, we may be in contact with others during a life transition and our connection with them may be part of a temporary support system. This type a friendship may also include someone we meet with or see from time to time but never really get to know well or plan activities with.
A tentative friendship may include people we become acquainted with at another location. Perhaps we are on a temporary assignment with a job or visiting for a short time at a particular location. Desiring companionship while away from home, we may allow ourselves to meet others. Tentative friendships can include new or exploratory friendships but since we will be leaving them, the friendship could be considered tentative. However, a tentative friendship can become more consistent if we decide to continue long distance contact or if either individual relocates in the vicinity of the other.
An Expanding friendship is no longer a tentative or exploratory. With these individuals we develop ongoing, closer relationships by meeting together consistently where disclosure continues and becomes deeper.
Expanding friendships can lead to intimate friendships. Through this type of friendship, we develop a very close bond. Essentially each person has adopted each other as supportive influences to each other. This type of friendship is honored and cherished and deepens through time.
Intimate friendships become romantic friendships when romantic feelings and sexual attraction are shared.
Spiritual friendships develop around spiritual concepts and ideas which become more important than any other activities or efforts. This type of friendship may include shared praying or reading of spiritual literature.
A false friendship is not a true friendship and includes a relationship where trust does not exist and miscommunication or dishonesty may be common. There may also be confusion, physical or emotional abuse associated with this type of relationship. This type of friendship is unhealthy and should be avoided.
Examing our current relationships is important for our well being. Knowing what types of friendships we have can help us plan for future changes as we encounter life changes. Good friendships require commitment and work. It is important that we have some friendships in our lives and that we allow people we trust to get to know us and become a part of our lives.

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My Friendship!

November 2, 2011 By Leave a Comment

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The difference between a best friend and a just friend is that one extra moment of sharing, is that one extra bit of understanding, is simply one extra than everyone else & everything else. I had my moments of bests in life. Best academic performance, best friendship, first love which is the best & its failure that turned me into cynic towards love & life. All feelings touched my heart & soul so far. The one string which always touched by my best friend is the faith one. The more faith one has shown in me and my friendship, the more my worth, value for that friend and friendship increased.

 

 Corporate world dragging me into gutters, failures weakening my strength day by day, I always wonder, what would it take for me to reach to the top. I always left myself at crossroads.

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What Does Friendship Mean?

Acquaintance: a degree of friendship called slight when its object is poor or obscure, and intimate when he is rich or famous. – Ambrose Bierce. Is this true in your case or do you have friends who may not be so famous or known but are always for you when you need them or vice versa? Essence of Friendship and Love

Friendship is one of the relationships that does not have compulsion and is a voluntary relationship, which makes it a long lasting one. There are a number of people whom we meet everyday and some of them become cherished friends for a lifetime. On one hand where you can be friends with anyone, on the other you should be careful enough in selecting your friends. True Friendship and Love

At some point of life everyone needs a true friend who they can trust and confide in. Having the company of good friends in your life is very important. However, making your friendship a long lasting relationship, it is important that you put in efforts from your side to make your friendship work. When you wish to make true friends it is important that you look out for good people who are trustworthy and deserve to be called as friends. Real Love and Friendship

People crave real love and friendship without having an understanding of what it is all about. Love cannot be defined in words, it is a feeling that can only be expressed through words and actions. Real love is a feeling that would be the resultant of being loved and cared for. When there is love between two people there is no ego and there is no jealousy. It only is the trust and the care that two people have and share for each other.But I found one lotus in that gutters which kept me going, which keeps inspiring me, which gives me a reason to smile.

 

 There are times which are unexplainable, unbearable and unimaginable. I know what pain my friend is going through; alas I can’t take away that pain. All that I can do in this world is just wait for the pain to subside, just wait for the difficult moment to pass by, just wait for my friend to smile back, waiting beside my friend to recover. I have never felt so helpless in the world, when the problem is not shared! When no one understands what I am going through to understand my friend’s problem. Why can’t I simply become such a powerful strength, that the fiercest of the stabs won’t hurt my friend! I am desperate to know what’s going through my friend’s mind & dying to feel what experience the heart is feeling. The dark pain whenever raises its ugly head, the bright smile of my friend’s does a beautiful miracle, not once or twice but every time. A great man truly said,

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